Poe Case
1304 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since CPS declared the claim against me unsubstantiated.
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1304 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since CPS declared the claim against me unsubstantiated.
1500 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since Fayette County Family Court took my children from me.
1500 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since Fayette County Family Court took my children from me.
1303 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since the D.A. dropped criminal charges against me.
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1303 days 18 hours 13 minutes,
since the D.A. dropped criminal charges against me.
The actions by this court are so biased and prejudicial that the court appointed psychologist suggested that I consider a documentary that would expose this unfair treatment.
I was accused of smacking my son’s face because he said “his shoes were too tight”. This accusation was made the day AFTER I found out the children were in secret therapy sessions. I have never struck my children, an adult witness was present, the ex-wife made several contradicting statements, her own witness testified against her.
Both Judges ignored witness testimony and neither were concerned by the testimony made by the ex-wife that directly contradicted her sworn statements to law enforcement and CPS.
Judge Messer openly dismissed the credibility of actual investigations that found the accusation to be unsubstantiated and charges immediately dismissed.
Judge Messer repeatedly referenced the decision made by the DVO judge as proof of guilt. The DVO hearing was conducted PRIOR to the investigations being conducted and their results determined the accusation to be unsubstantiated and false.
She continuously spoke of the “preponderance of evidence“, there was no evidence presented at the DVO hearing and no evidence has ever been presented, other than what the ex-wife says, she was not present at the time, and what she has made the children say in her presence. Her testimony has been proven to be false time and time again, and these obvious lies are presented on this site.
Judge Isaacs was very clear that an altercation with an ex-girlfriend years ago was the determining factor to order the DVO, and take my children from me, despite the lack of any evidence of child abuse.
Multiple red flags from the beginning were ignored by both judges.
Ali testified that we never speak on the phone. All communication is done by text. Thus there is a record of every conversation we have had. If the children were afraid of me and if abuse had been ongoing, surely she has texts voicing her concern about the welfare and the treatment of the children… right?
She could not produce a single text over the last 10 years that questioned my care of the children, or any reference of them fearing me.
I provided every text we sent each other during the year leading up to the false accusation. These included texts on the same day in which she was reporting abuse to the children’s therapist. She never expressed the slightest concern of my treatment of the children.
One would think a Judge would question a mother knowingly sending small children to an abusive father without expressing any concerns whatsoever….
An intelligent judge, or even a 5th grader, would take some issue with this… not Judge Messer. Her bias blinded her throughout these proceedings.
Two major lies were revealed and yet judge Messer did not care.
*Ali lied about me knowing about the therapy and using my insurance.
*Ali lied to authorities about past abuse.
These lies were exposed in court testimony, but Judge Messer totally ignored these, along with other obvious and material facts.
The ex-wife alleged that the children experienced abuse multiple times, to the children’s therapist PRIOR to the false accusation of which I was arrested.
She listed abuse as “ONGOING” on the EPO request:
She provided detailed descriptions of PAST physical abuse towards the children to CPS and the police.
According to Ali’s sworn statement to CPS, six months prior I supposedly slammed Jack to the ground:
According to the police report, if dad is in a bad mood that is when he “hits, smacks, and calls names“:
She had Jack make up stories of abuse on a phone call with a detective. Speaking on the phone with a detective, Jack is forced by his mother to create other prior abuse fallacies; “punches in the stomach and kicked in the knee“. Try to not get caught up in his mom’s obvious coaching and him apologizing, “sorry mom”, for getting the answer wrong. This is real child abuse.
Ali tells the detective that there “are so many different instances” of past abuse to the children…
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Ali then proceeded to totally contradict herself under oath:
Jack without his mother present tells the truth about ever being hit by has daddy:
These obvious lies exposed during testimony had no impact on Judge Messer. She actually accosted me for suggesting that the therapy was conducted in secret and for not accepting responsibility in the abuse of my children.
How can anyone with half a brain not see the lies in her own courtroom?
7/30/2021
This is our last photo together. Adi was 5 and Jack was 7 years old. Today Adi is 7 and Jack is 9.
Five days after this photo, Jack told me about his therapist and that it was a secret. The very next day, criminal child abuse charges were filed against me. I haven’t had my children since.
On full display is unquestionable and blatant bias by the bench, indolent and irresponsible efforts by a detective, inexplicable overreach by the FOC, and a seemingly utter disregard for the well-being of the children who are obviously being used by their mother to alienate their dad.
Ali testified that we never speak on the phone. All communication is done by text. Thus there is a record of every conversation we have had. If the children were afraid of me and if abuse had been ongoing, surely she has texts voicing her concern about the welfare and the treatment of the children… right?
She could not produce a single text over the last 10 years that questioned my care of the children, or any reference of them fearing me.
I provided every text we sent each other during the year leading up to the false accusation. These included texts on the same day in which she was reporting abuse to the children’s therapist. She never expressed the slightest concern of my treatment of the children.
One would think a Judge would question a mother knowingly sending small children to an abusive father without expressing any concerns whatsoever….
This did not seem to have any impact on Judge Messer
Intro
i knew
insert video
used my insurance
lied on intake
lied to judge for reason and Ana
Obviously coached 7 out of 15
took them out of therapy when supervised started
Text book alienation case, but according to multiple attorneys, Judge Messer does not believe in alienation, or that a parent can coach young children into saying bad things about the other parent that are not true.
To be honest, before this case I didn’t think children would do this either. But I am not a family court judge that deals with narcissistic parents that have no issue using their children for their own benefit.
There are so many concerning issues in which Judge Messer seemingly does not care:
The only evidence supporting the claim that I slapped Jack are simply verbal accusations:
*What my ex-wife says.
*What my ex-wife has made the children say.
Judge Messer does not care that no material evidence was provided or that the ex-wife made contradicting statements.
1.) An altercation with an ex-girlfriend 5 years ago that did not involve the children was the reasoning for the issuance of the DVO, according to Judge Isaacs.
Judge Messer leaned on this ruling and made several comments regarding that altercation as if it wasn’t litigated years ago?
2.) My “mean words” verbally or via text to Ali regarding her drug use, children’s school attendance, kid’s hygiene issues, and the fact that she would not take the children to extracurricular events.
Despite zero evidence of actual abuse, these two immaterial issues were determined to be reason enough to take my children from me for almost 2 years and counting.
Despite the fact that we only text, Ali could not produce ONE message indicating her concern about how I treat the children or that they fear me.
It is illogical to assume that a mother would not attempt to inquire or make an effort to stop the abuse of her children, if it were true.
I provided texts for an entire year leading up to the slap accusation, not one was remotely close to a concern by Ali as to how I treat the children. Judge Messer does not care.
The children’s therapist testified that Ali reported mutliple instances of abuse prior to the slap accusation.
Ali swore on the EPO filing that abuse to the children preexisted and was ongoing.
CPS documented Ali’s description of multiple instances of abuse by me to the children.
In a recorded phone call with a detective, Ali made several comments detailing several instances of previous abuse.
Even worse, Ali forced jack to fabricate previous instances of abuse by me to CPS and the detective.
Under oath Ali testified that there was no previous abuse.
Speaking to Judge Isaacs without his mom present Jack says he had never been hit in the past.
Despite these obvious inconsistencies, Judge Messer does not care.
August 5th, 2021, Jack told his therapist I slapped his face and knocked him to the floor. His mother was present.
August 6th, 2021. Jack is documented by CPS that I slapped him. His mother was present.
August ?????? Jack cannot remember how or where he was hit. His mother WAS NOT PRESENT.
August ?????? days/week after the DVO hearing, Jack tells the detective he was slapped. His mother was present.
Judge Messer dismisses the relevance of Jack’s story and how it changes with and without his mother being present.
August 5th, 2021, Jack told his therapist that I slapped his face and knocked him to the floor. His mother was present.
August 6th, 2021. Jack is documented by CPS that I slapped him. His mother was present.
told Judge Isaacs that he doesn’t remember where he was hit when asked without his mom present. Judge Messer does not care.
Ali’s hired therapist testified against her disputing every claim that she made. Judge Messer does not care.
Judge Messer refuses to even consider that I may be telling the truth, despite my team providing all of the material evidence. We also demonstrated Ali has lied multiple times and made previous accusations that were proven 100% false. Judge Messer does not care.
Having the criminal charges dropped and the abuse claim determined to be unsubstantiated, I was very hopeful to have my visitation back with the children. It had been over 7 months without them.
During motion hour on March 18th, 2022, my attorney informed Judge Messer that I had been cleared by CPS and the DA. He requested that visitation be reinstated. Judge Messer denied the request stating “she doesn’t put much faith in those CPS investigations”.
Judge Messer will readily take children away from a father for years based solely on an accusation provided to CPS before an investigation, but has no confidence in their actual investigation to determine if a claim is substantiated?
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Her decision to deny visitation after I was cleared and the criminal charges dismissed was over a year ago. I’m still without my children.
Judge Messer is very upset with me for claiming that I had no idea the children were in therapy and that I referred to the therapy as “secret”.
How is this possible? The therapist testified that I was not supposed to know and that she did not believe the children’s weekly made up accusations.
Jack told Judge Isaacs that I couldn’t know and that I just found out. Another witness testified that I did not know about the therapy.
Judge Messer went on to criticize my allegation that the children were forced to lie and then mocks me as portraying myself as a “loving father”:
The therapy notes begin with my ex-wife’s lies about why the children are in therapy and then each session is obviously coached.
Despite the fact that the children are seen separately, EVERY single session is about me, yet the therapist never asked about me. A 5 & 7 year old only discuss “bad dad”, not school or friends but dad.
Despite the fact that the children are seen separately, 9 out of 15 sessions the children provide the therapist he same narrative.
Despite the fact that the children are seen separately, 6 out of 15 sessions the children use the exact same phrasing.
Despite the fact that the children are seen separately, both say words that a 5 & 7 year old would not, such as dad does “inappropriate” things all the time, a 5 year old really said this.
The day after I found out about the SECRET therapy my ex-wife claims Jack just happened to bring up that he was slapped the day before. Just a coincidence, right Judge?
Not only that he said it “excitedly”…? He didn’t tell his mom 2 hours after it supposedly happened, but at the therapists office XXXXXXX
Then there is the fact, that the same week supervised visitation began, she stopped taking the children to therapy without any notice. More coincidence Judge Messer?
Judge Messer obviously did not read the therapy notes or she is beyond biased, as no one is this stupid.
Add in the fact that my ex-wife’s attorney attempted to have these therapy notes kept from the court should have raised some questions?
Judge Messer was not concerned in the least regarding the therapist’s testimony, the obviously coached therapy notes or the fact that the other side wanted everything about the therapy concealed.
How can this be anything but bias?
Judge Messer continuously repeats the narrative that a preponderance of evidence was presented and considered at the DVO hearing. What evidence? There was NO evidence presented at the DVO hearing that remotely suggested that I hit my son because “his shoes were too tight”.
The only aspect of the DVO hearing that was evident, was that my testimony, Alexis Bender’s testimony and Jack’s version of the allegation all matched. That is until Judge Isaac said to him, “You said he hit you”, and Jack immediately struggled.
Judge Messer decides the case was determined by the DVO court ruling PRIOR to the formal investigations that found the accusation unsubstantiated and all charges were dismissed.
INSERT CPS & DISMISSAL
Judge Isaacs was very clear that she granted the DVO based up on the incident with my ex-girlfriend 5 years ago which did not involve the children.
INSERT ISAACS VIDEO
What an incredibly stupid and unfair excuse to take children from a parent? And this is the final judgement Judge Messer sites as reason for me to continue to not have my children?
An altercation with a drunk girlfriend years prior has ZERO to do with how I treat my children today (or in my case; almost 2 years ago thanks to the bias of these judges).
Absolutely zero proof was presented that suggests I slapped Jack. If anything, all of the lies by his mother, the witness testimony against her, the factors surrounding when and how Jack supposedly told his mother, the fact Jack can n0t remember where he was hit without his mother present, and a formal investigation clearing me, all suggest that this might be a false accusation.
CPS actually performed an investigation and found the accusation unsubstantiated and the district attorney’s office looked into it and spoke with the mother and immediately dismissed the charges. What basis does Judge Messer have to make this determination? Judge Isaacs DVO decision? That decision was based on a totally different case with zero evidence.
There is ZERO material evidence to draw such an opinion. The willful neglect to consider the obvious lies and unmistakeable coaching by the mother, and to neglect the formal investigations is unfair and should be examined.
Judge Messer states that the smack is possibly an isolated incident, she then proceeds to say it doesn’t matter all that much at this point… if he was or wasn’t because Judge Isaac at the DVO Hearing heard “all the evidence”. This is insane, my children have been taken from me for over a year and a half and it doesn’t matter if Jack was hit or not?
Again, “all the evidence”, is simply the accusation from an ex-wife and the coaching of young children.
This is a cop-out and and an excuse to ignore all of the evidence that was presented which indicates this entire case is a premeditated lie.
Once again, Judge Messer displays extreme bias by utilizing the DVO hearing as the final judgement which was conducted BEFORE the investigations that cleared me had even begun.
This is insanity. The entire case has been fabricated, lie after lie has been proven and Judge Messer insists that I take responsibility for my alleged actions? She reprimands me for not taking ownership for my part as it relates to the children’s current emotional and mental state. I haven’t been able to discuss this with my children since it started two years ago. I have no part in this premeditated plan that used the children in her attempt to obtain custody.
My children have NEVER feared me, nor are they mad at me. Judge Messer is incapable of believing children can be coerced by a parent to make untrue statements. If any of this were true why can Ali NOT produce a single message to me detailing her concerns about my treatment of the children or their supposed fear of me? Why does this fact NOT raise ANY suspension from a sensible judge?
I had an arrearage of $2700 concerning a disputed start date of payments since the beginning of the divorce. I made extra payments to cover the full amount. I provided every bank statement from the most recent to the date that divorce was finalized. The statements highlighted easy to confirm Zelle transfers to her mother’s account, this was the account established from the beginning that was to receive all payments from me.
Along with the the bank statements, I provided a reference sheet that included the dates and amounts of every payment and extra payment.
Ali’s lawyer contended that they were not clear on the payments as it was her mother’s account.
Judge Messer stated that there seems to be a misunderstanding and that she does not believe that the extra payments were to the arrearage. She ordered me to pay the $2700 again.
Ali never suggested that she paid for anything that required reimbursement from me, that never happened. Ali never suggested that I give her money to pay for something for the children, that never happened. So because Ali didn’t “understand”.,I have to pay $2700 again?
She provided no suggestion or proof of why I would give her extra money? There is absolutely no basis whatsoever for Judge Messer to award her request to be paid $2700 again.
What more can I provide other than the bank transfers? Does Ali not have to provide an adequate reason for receiving the extra payments? This entire case has been me providing tangible evidence and her simply providing her word.
From my vantage point I can only view this as an example of blatant bias. At least Judge Messer is consistent in her prejudicial rulings.
Chastise me because she is unaware of detoxing
ignores years worth of instagram images of weed
IG Video
Edited after GF complaint – Messer
2019 accusations don’t match with 2021 testimony – Ali DVO
Judge Messer readily joined Ali’s attorney in the insinuation that I had violated an EPO attached to the ex-girlfriend’s case.
It is obvious, that neither of them read the accusation in the EPO. To begin with, the violation was an accusation carried out by Mike Davidson, my ex-girlfriend’s attorney.
He declared that I said “Give these to Whitney” and that this was a violation.
He also insisted that I gave cash to her aunt to give to Whitney.
What actually happened:
Coordinated with my attorneys, I was to meet with her aunt to give her the last basket of items Whitney left at my house. During this meet with her aunt, Whitney was out of town. Prior to the meeting her aunt contacted me and asked for credit cards that had Whitney’s name on them. She stated that Whitney was concerned that they may be used and her credit impacted.
When we met, the aunt asked how I had Whitney’s credit cards. I explained to her that the cards were simply authorized user cards from my accounts. The aunt did not want to take cards from my account and asked me to cut them up. There was never any cash.
The police officer who wrote the violation later revised the report stating that Whitney did not tell him there was any cash, this accusation was made up by Mr. Davidson. The officer removed that accusation.
Thus the only accusation against me was my supposed statement, “Give these to Whitney”, when I handed her aunt the basket. This is as comical as it is stupid. We planned this meeting, the only reason for meeting was to give the aunt Whitney’s things and she would give them to her. Why would I have to direct her to, “give these to Whitney”?
I would normally say that no judge would rule this a violation but after my experience with Judge Messer, she probably would have me sent to prison.
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I provided :
video of her talking about doings drugs
her instagram is full of drugs
podcasts talking about drug
photos of her doing drugs
photos of the children finding her drugs
video of her drugs and pipes in the children’s room
Judge Messer does not believe that a person with a week’s notice cannot pass a urine drug test. As a former assistant prosecutor how can she be this stupid?
Intro
-Therapist made the complaint and did not appear for hearing.
-Ordered my attorney to hold objections to the end.
-Despite my testimony, another adult witness and Jack’s testimony being the same the judge still determined me guilty.
– The judge determined the adult witness not credible, but the child is credible despite not remembering where he is was hit, him stating he was never hit in the past, and him informing the judge that he was told to keep his therapy from his dad.
-DVO ruling was solely based on 2019 GF video
No investigation, phone calls only
Leading questions, “When your dad hit you”, “When your dad kicked you”
Leading Jack to change the timeframe of alleged abuse, the detective exclaimed. “This is GREAT”, hoping to add more charges.
Detective told Ali, “I am going to talk to him and I’m Going to arrest him
Law degree makes these people psychologist in 15 minutes
Brian – mentally immature, wont accept responsibility
Lexi – naive
Did mention coaching.
Text book alienation case How do we know? “make it right, until its fixed”
The premeditated plan was easy to follow. Ali’s mother has a psychology degree and we suspect her attorney has been involved long before filing criminal charges.
Plan:
1. Wait necessary time frame
2. When the time frame is up, place young children with therapist force them to fabricate stories.
I do not know how parents influence the children to say false things about their other parent, but apparently it is not uncommon.
Did Ali provide a clue as to how she might have influenced the kids say things that were not true about their dad with this statement to the detective?
This accusation was never mentioned in court. If it was true that she or the children thought I would have hurt her or their grandmother surely it would have been brought up to the judge.
3. Push my buttons, try to get me on video appearing reacting angrily and coming across as a bad person.
I was totally unaware of her intentions, which is on me, but she attempted a few times to rile me up. She was successful twice with this ambush strategy.
They presented 2 videos of me angry with Ali as evidence.
text messages and video
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I’m sure others may react better than I did in those 2 circumstances, however, the disagreements I have with the ex-wife has no bearing on how I treat my children.
4. File a criminal charge
5. Utilize ex-girlfriend complaint to establish the narrative that I am a bad person in hopes that the judges are gullible and ignore the facts, or lack there of, in this case.
5. Demand custody
No evidence was needed, just the words of an ex-wife and a coached comments of a young child.
Use the year’s old ex-girlfriend complaint and videos of me mean to their mom.
Despite the lack of any material evidence this pathetic plan was successful in removing my children from for almost 2 years and counting.
Sick and sad
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Intro
i knew
insert video
used my insurance
lied on intake
lied to judge for reason and Ana
Obviously coached 7 out of 15
took them out of therapy when supervised started
These revelations should be enough to give any judge pause and maybe NOT keep children from their father for over a year and a half, and counting…..?
Ali testified that we never speak on the phone. All communication is done by text. Thus there is a record of every conversation we have had. If the children were afraid of me and if abuse had been ongoing, surely she has texts voicing her concern about the welfare and the treatment of the children… right?
She could not produce a single text over the last 10 years that questioned my care of the children, or any reference of them fearing me.
I provided every text we sent each other during the year leading up to the false accusation. These included texts on the same day in which she was reporting abuse to the children’s therapist. She never expressed the slightest concern of my treatment of the children.
One would think a Judge would question a mother knowingly sending small children to an abusive father without expressing any concerns whatsoever….
This did not seem to have any impact on Judge Messer
Another major issue that my team thought would surely cause the Judge to at least take into consideration the possibility that my ex-wife might not be totally honest:
She alleged that children experienced abuse multiple times to the children’s therapist PRIOR to the false accusation of which I was arrested.
She listed abuse as “ONGOING” on the EPO request.
She provided detailed descriptions of PAST physical abuse towards the children to CPS and the police.
She had Jack make up stories of abuse on a phone call with a detective.
She then proceeded to totally contradict herself under oath.
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EPO “Abuse is ongoing”:
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Six months prior I supposedly slammed Jack to the ground:
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Speaking on the phone with a detective, Jack is forced by his mother to create other prior abuse by me, “punches in the stomach and kicked in the knee“. Try to not get caught up in his mom’s obvious coaching and him apologizing, “sorry mom”, for getting the answer wrong. This is real child abuse.
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Ali tells the detective that there “are so many different instances” of past abuse to the children…
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Now watch her answer regarding previous abuse under oath:
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Here is Jack talking to the Judge WITHOUT his mom present regarding previous abuse:
The crazy aspect about this isn’t that the ex-wife obviously lied and forced our young son to lie, but once again, Judge Messer is not concerned whatsoever by the obvious “contradictions”.
This appears to be an obvious sign of utter bias on the part of Judge Messer.
Ali testified under oath multiple times that I knew about the children’s therapy and that my insurance was used. Even our son Jack told the Judge I didn’t know and just found out. He also said that I wasn’t supposed to know until “things were fixed”.
Ali’s testimony is thoroughly contradicted by the therapist:
If this therapy was honestly conducted because of my abuse, and because she feared for the children’s safety if I found out, why didn’t she just say that? Why lie and say I knew?
She does this again when asked why Jack was in therapy, and she answers “depression and anxiety”, no mention of me. Why not say because of his dad… if these allegations were true?
Judge Isaacs provides her an opportunity to blame the need for the therapy on me by asking if a particular event occurred around that time resulting in the need for therapy. She says no, yet she told the therapist they were there because divorce, current EPO. XXXXXXXXXX
On top of these lies she has no explanation why our 5 year old daughter is in the same therapy…
These are actual judges unfazed by the nonstop fallaciousness. This is how you know the judge has their mind made up regardless of the evidence.
I supposedly slapped Jack less than 2 hours before his mother picked him up. He had no marks and did not mention that he was slapped.
She says Jack told her the next afternoon before therapy. At this point she knows that Jack has told me about the secret therapy.
So, when Jack tells her that I slapped him, he was “excited” to tell her? A child that has never been spanked is “excited” to say his daddy slapped him? And why before therapy? Is it because therapy is where they have to come up with new accusations each and every week of my supposed abuse?
This is a terrible mother.
While telling his mom things about his day (he was at school that day) Jack just happened to mention being slapped the day before?
How is this remotely believable by anyone with an open mind?
Jack went in detail with his therapist as to how he was slapped, he told CPS that he was slapped in the face, and again to a detective. His mother (who was not present at the time of the alleged slap) was concerned that he was slapped so hard he may have had a concussion.. did she seek medical attention? No, of course not.
Her comments to the detective:
Therapist speaks of Jack’s detailed description of being slapped:
So what does Jack say when his mom isn’t with him? He can’t remember where he was hit…
The child has never been spanked. He has been in “timeout” 3 times in his life, and he can’t remember being slapped in the face so hard it knocked to him the ground? But with mom present he can go into detail? She is a bad mother and these judges are intentionally blind to the obvious.
Judge Isaacs doesn’t appear to be pleased that Jack cannot remember where he was hit.
The Judge asks him to tell her exactly what happened. The kid tells the truth!
His version is exactly the same as I testified.
His version is exactly the same as my current girlfriend testified. She was there and standing closer to Jack than I was.
He didn’t want to wear a certain pair of shoes, the pair he wanted were being washed. I told him to put another pair on and that we had to go so we were not late for a haircut appointment for him.
Jack pouted about it and said he didn’t have to wear those shoes if he didn’t want to… I replied, “You don’t have to have this iPhone either, put on the shoes, meet me in the car.”
I never entered his bedroom.
Judge Isaac’s exclaims you said he hit you? And Jack, who never stutters, stutters terribly and escapes the conversation by saying he had a really great barber… He cannot remember where he was slapped but can remember his barber’s name whom he had never been to before, or since…?
This is very difficult to watch, again, this the real child abuse his mother is putting him through. How does this Judge not see this?
Sept/2018 – Mediation Hearing, abuse denied by both parties.
Mar/2019 – She files a Motion wanting more money, does not mention any abuse other than disparaging comments made by me.
Mar/2019 – Ex-Girlfriend files a complaint against me regarding an altercation. This serves as the catalyst for all abuse accusations moving forward.
Apr/2019 – 10 days later, ex-wife edits her original complaint for more money to full custody and claims she has been abused the entire relationship. She later contradicts this claim with her own testimony.
May/2019 – Ex-wife cannot come up with specifics of previous abuse and claims new abuses have occurred. Proven false.
Jun/2019 – Her attorney advises she wait the required 2 years to file for custody.
Apr/2021 – Right at the end of the 2 year waiting period she places children into secret therapy.
Aug/2021 – My son tells me about the therapy and that it is a secret.
Aug/2021 – The next day the ex-wife accuses me of slapping my son. EPO and criminal charges filed and I was arrested.
Oct 2021 – I finally get supervised visits for 55 minutes with the children.
Oct 2021 – The very next week she stopped taking the children to therapy.
September, 2018.
Amicable mediation agreement signed and both of us denied any abuse in the relationship.
March 18th, 2019.
Just a few months later the ex-wife filed a motion for more money. No mention of abuse other than me complaining to her regarding her drug usage around the children, as well as my total disdain for the bags of drugs and paraphernalia in the children’s room.
3/27/2019
Complaint by former girlfriend.
This becomes the catalyst for all the abuse accusations moving forward. The ex-wife and her current attorney always lean on this because they have no evidence of abuse.
4/12/2019
Within 10 days of the girlfriend’s complaint the ex-wife revised her motion, and for the first time accuses me as “always been violent, intimidating and unstable towards her”. She provides no specifics, but does include all the specifics of the ex-girlfriend’s complaint, as they are now communicating.
The ex-wife later contradicts this accusation of violence and intimidation by me in the DVO hearing of 2022.
Intro to topic
Immediately upon receiving the revised motion in 2019 alleging abuse, we demanded that she provide some evidence of abuse. There was no abuse in our 8 year relationship, thus she could not provide any evidence. She then fabricates two separate “abusive” events that occurred recently, at that time.
Context; after the ex-girlfriend’s complaint the ex-wife used that as an excuse to not let me see the children or have them for my visitation days. She refused to answer my texts and calls.
Allegation #1
I went to the ex-wife’s home and asked to see the children, she refused but came outside to talk to me.
After I left she accused me of forcing my way into her home.
What she didn’t know, was that I was video recording the entire time hoping she would admit to keeping the children from me without a court order. Instead I had proof of a terrible false accusation.
We supplied the video to her attorney and that claim never made it to Judge Messer.
Allegation #2
She accused me of berating and cussing her at a restaurant and waiting outside for her and her date.
Of course none of this ever happened, she and I texted the next morning and I thanked her for talking to me. A few hours later I was informed of her accusation, in which she replied that it was a “misunderstanding” and she cleared it up.
Her attorney did not get this wrong, she was lied to.
Not only did I not go outside and wait on her and her date, she actually attempted to take my car from the valet.
I was able to obtain several sworn statements from witnesses and employees of the restaurant and subpoenaed their cameras videos.
We supplied all of the information to her attorney and this claim never made it to Judge Messer.
See the emails and sworn statements here:
Other than the obvious lies mentioned earlier (I was not aware of the therapy, my insurance was not used, and I had never abused the children), Ali stated several other mistruths to the therapist.
On the intake form she listed she and I as currently going through a divorce. We had been divorced for 3 years.
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She denied saying this:
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Ali told the therapist that she had full custody and that she had a current EPO against me due to abuse to her. Both totally false.
Dr allowed her to take drugs while pregnant
Jack DSM-5
Possession charge
Only Fans
Not her drugs in the kids room
She doesnt want to leave KY
She was just acting when she talked about doing drugs
I was always welcome therapy & insurance
Sadly these
She lied on the EPO filing that abuse was ongoing.
She lied to CPS detailing multiple instances of previous abuse.
She lied to a detective forcing Jack to fabricate previous abuse.
Sept/2018 – Mediation Hearing, abuse denied by both parties.
Mar/2019 – She files a Motion wanting more money, does not mention any abuse other than disparaging comments made by me.
Mar/2019 – Ex-Girlfriend files a complaint against me regarding an altercation. This serves as the catalyst for all abuse accusations moving forward.
Apr/2019 – 10 days later, ex-wife edits her original complaint for more money to full custody and claims she has been abused the entire relationship. She later contradicts this claim with her own testimony.
May/2019 – Ex-wife cannot come up with specifics of previous abuse and claims new abuses have occurred. Proven false.
Jun/2019 – Her attorney advises she wait the required 2 years to file for custody.
Apr/2021 – Right at the end of the 2 year waiting period she places children into secret therapy.
Aug/2021 – My son tells me about the therapy and that it is a secret.
Aug/2021 – The next day the ex-wife accuses me of slapping my son. EPO and criminal charges filed and I was arrested.
Oct 2021 – I finally get supervised visits for 55 minutes with the children.
Oct 2021 – The very next week she stopped taking the children to therapy.
-Introduce random men on the internet to the children to obtain gifts and money.
-Wont let my family see the children, prevents Lexi from attending parties.
“Instagram Acting”. Not scripted
Dr told her it was ok to do drugs while pregnant.
Jack DSM 5
Ali testified that she has not “performed” on adult site and that she did not have an Only Fans account.
She actually promoted herself being on a porn site.
Ali testified that she did not have an Only Fans account. Technically she was correct that she doesn’t have an actual “Only Fans”, she actually has 3 Only Fans knock off sites:
Post the audio and video
Cut Adaline’s hair after Lexi had it cut and styled.
Took the children out of every extracurricular activity
Still has the vehicle she was ordered to return on January 1st 2019,
Never provided 1st Right of Refusal
Always claimed both children for taxes and Covid funds.
Never participated in the chidlren’s activites.